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The things we sacrifice when we react our way through life are significant, and I knew I needed change. In search of clarity, I began to meditate. I started slowly, a few days a week, 10

minutes at a time. Today, a year later, I meditate most days for 20 minutes. It's not mysterious. I simply sit flat-footed in a straight-backed chair and take five deep breaths — in

through the nose, out through the mouth — to get started. I mentally scan my body for tension or discomfort and then continue to breathe steadily through my nose, counting breaths to keep

focused on the rise and fall, not on my runaway thoughts. When my mind wanders — and it always does — I simply note it and return to my breath. At the end, I give myself permission to think

of anything, anything at all, and my mind paradoxically goes blank for 20 or more seconds. Blissfully blank. Even with a hundred hours of meditation behind me, I continue to marvel at how

busy my mind can be, but I am even more amazed that I can climb outside my thoughts — that they don't define me but are rather "like traffic on the road" in front of me, as

one guided meditation said. I find that my emotions no longer drag me around like a dog on a leash. Meditation has worked for me, but on the rare occasions when I talk about it, I find

myself focusing on the one result I haven't read or heard much about. Sitting in silence, aware of my thoughts, has lengthened the space of time between a stimulus — a thought provoked

by something I see or hear — and my reaction to it. Until I began my meditation practice, I hadn't realized that this space existed and that what I did with it determined so much in my

life. That sliver of time between a comment from a friend or spouse, or getting cut off in traffic, and my reaction to it is where opportunity lies. Through practice, I'm aware that I

can choose whether to take a comment personally and react in kind, or take a moment and respond more thoughtfully. It's not easy. The space between is not filled with silence that lets

you think but with a rush of clanging emotions, regrets, longing and fear — learned reactions that often move us to act based on past patterns or simple frustration. When I meditate

regularly, I find that in these moments I can let all of this noise simply fall away, like silt to the bottom of a lake. This leaves me with the ability to see each unique situation clearly,

to choose my reaction. Since I've been meditating, I find that I increasingly choose wisely and that life is simpler when I do — and, apparently, healthier.