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THE PROSTATE. The so-called male G-spot is an often forgotten component of the body that can bring significant pleasure and orgasm when massaged, according to Harris-Jackson. Massaging the

penis and prostate at the same time intensifies the experience. Access to the prostate, located between the bladder and the penis, is through anal entry using a finger, a penis or a sex toy

designed for prostate stimulation. It’s a region with fragile tissues, so the use of lube is essential. Harris-Jackson also notes that this is pleasure that can be enjoyed by anyone with a

prostate, regardless of sexual orientation. NIPPLES. Due to their nerve endings, the nipples can produce significant pleasure when teased, touched, pinched, licked or kissed, according to

Harris-Jackson. Nipple vibrators and clamps may enhance the experience. When the mind connects that titillating touch to pleasure, the body becomes more aroused, sometimes resulting in an

erection or lubricated vaginal canal along with a full experience of orgasmic pleasure — what she calls a “nipple orgasm.” One caveat: Some women, particularly those who have had children,

may prefer not to have their nipples touched. “If their breasts have been heavily used for nursing, they may no longer view the nipple as a sexual component,” she says. THE SKIN. That brings

us to the largest sex organ: the skin.  “Our skin covers our entire body,” says Harris-Jackson, adding good news for those who are worried they’ll never find the right spot: “Wherever we

have skin there’s a possibility for an erogenous zone.” Locations to consider: the lower back, back of the thigh — just under the lower butt cheek — the inner thigh and the abdomen. 

Harris-Jackson routinely gives her clients homework, breaking the body into potential erogenous zones that couples then explore together: head to chest, chest to waist, waist to feet, and

the back of the head.  She encourages partners to touch each other in new ways, using feathers, ice and warmed fingers, while also applying different levels of pressure. “What happens is

they start to play in that way, developing their own sexual map. This map becomes helpful. If the couple wants a slow, romantic, intimate encounter, they will start gently here, then go

there, building up arousal,” she adds. “If all they have time for is a quickie, they’ll know how to take a faster route.” Video: Sex and Your Libido