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* BEING UNFAITHFUL CAN BE THE MOST AGONISING TRAUMA FOR ANYONE TO ENDURE * INFIDELITY HAPPENS FAR TOO OFTEN, BUT MANY DON'T PICK UP ON THE BEHAVIOUR SOONER  * BEHAVIOURAL EXPERT GRAZINA

FECHNER REVEALS THE TELL-TALE SIGNS TO SPOT A CHEATER By CINDY TRAN FOR DAILY MAIL AUSTRALIA Published: 11:23 EDT, 2 July 2018 | Updated: 12:21 EDT, 2 July 2018 Forget lipstick on the

collar, if your partner starts hiding their phone or is suddenly more active on social media, they may well be having an affair. Infidelity happens far too often, but sadly many people

don't pick up on the behaviour quickly. Sydney's behavioural expert Grazina Fechner knows the modern tell-tale signs to spot a cheater - and how to confront them if you know they

are straying. Scroll down for video HOW TO SPOT A CHEATER  * Hiding their things such as a phone * Sudden behavioural changes * Frequent excuses * Shift in social media use 'Some of the

red flags are definitely people hiding their stuff so they're hiding their phone or little notes in their pocket,' she told The Morning Show. Grazina explained there were

suspicious vibes to look out for, including sudden behavioural changes, making frequent excuses and constantly using social media more than they did. 'They're pulling out of events

that they used to be apart of with the whole gang and most of all, they are on social media more so than they used to be,' she said. She said cheaters share the similar personality

traits - and it was important to consider these behaviours if you suspect your partner is being deceitful.  'They're quite flirtatious and charming, so they enjoy that engagement

of being around people. They're really good at conversations,' she explained. 'They can control their emotions because that's an important part of cheating - it's

being able to control and compart your emotions. 'And they're really good at planning because they have to plan one environment, another family life... work shenanigans - it's

all going on in that planning phase.' Before confronting a cheater, Grazina suggesting finding evidence first. 'It's really, really important you collect some evidence and

talk it out calmly. There's no point ranting and raving, and throwing the phone back at your partner,' she said.  'And you talk about it.' If you choose to forgive your

partner for cheating, Grazina said the one thing to keep in mind is you have to move on once you've made that decision. 'You can't bring it back,' she said.