How to be an lgbtqia+ ally | england hockey

How to be an lgbtqia+ ally | england hockey


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Listening is a vital skill of an ally. It’s important to ensure that LGBTQIA+ people feel heard but it’s also important for you to understand key language and themes of content from LGBTQIA+


individuals. It’s really important that you respect and listen to how an LGBTQIA+ person describes themselves. Do not apply labels to a person without them telling you. Understanding the


history and current topics for the LGBTQIA+ community will allow you to provide support for others. Understand that language and terminology evolves. Don’t worry about having to ask


questions or research any topics you don’t know or understand. Learn about pronouns: what they are, why they matter and how you can be an ally by introducing yourself with your pronouns. If


someone has taken you into their confidence about who they are then it is important that you respect that and their privacy. Don’t assume that they have told everyone. You should never out


someone to other people. Avoid using gendered language where assumptions are implied, e.g. instead of asking someone about their girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife, ask about their


partner. Always call out homophobic, biphobic or transphobic comments or jokes. If you hear any language or see any behaviour you are uncomfortable with at your club speak to your Welfare


Officer or club Chair. Mistakes happen! It’s important that you apologise and are willing to listen to how to move on. Everyone is always learning and being respectful when a mistake is made


is key.